chicken soup for soul

You don't have to be your mother unless she is who you want to be. you don't have to be your mother's mother, or your mother's mother's mother, or even your grandmother's mother on your father's side.

You may inherit their chins or their hips or their eyes, but your are not destined to become the women who came before you.

You are not destined to live their lives. so, if you inherit something, inherit their strength, their resilience. because the only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.

                                                                                    - Pam Finger -

a good motivation though. don't let people change you coz you can just change for yourself. inherit the strength because it is the cruel world you have to face. 

i am nervous when it comes to one year relationship. and up until now i still find my way to sooth myself and not to be trapped in my own speculations. a kind of traumatic experience. please just let it lasts.